You have made the decision. The texts go back three months, the promises stopped being specific in the spring, and you are done. What happens next is not a decision anymore. It is a procedure, and the procedure does not care how reasonable you have been. It cares whether each step was done correctly, in order, and documented. Owners rarely lose these cases on the merits. They lose them on a detail from step one that nobody noticed until step four.
The sequence is fixed. The clock is not.
Anyone who quotes you a number of weeks is guessing. Court calendars, service, adjournments, and the specifics of your case all move the clock, and none of them are within your control. What you can know in advance is the order of operations:
- A written predicate notice, of the correct type for your situation, served correctly
- A petition filed in the court with jurisdiction over that property
- Service of the papers on the respondent, by a permitted person, in a permitted manner, with proof filed
- The respondent's opportunity to appear and answer
- A conference, possible adjournments, and a trial if the matter is not resolved
- A judgment, and if granted, a warrant
- Enforcement, carried out only by an authorized enforcement officer
Budget for the same categories every time: the filing, the service, counsel, your own hours, and the rent that is not arriving while all of it happens. Those categories are certain. The amounts are yours to price locally.
The notice and the service are where most cases die
The single most common failure is a notice problem. The wrong type of notice for the situation. The right notice served the wrong way. A notice missing something it was required to contain. A notice sent by an owner who did not keep proof it was ever sent.
Service has the same character. It is not enough that the tenant clearly received the papers and clearly knows about the case. The method and the proof have their own rules, and a judge reviewing them is not deciding whether it was fair. They are deciding whether it was done properly. If it was not, you generally start again, and the arrears keep growing while you do.
This is exactly where an attorney earns the fee, and where owners who "just want to save the retainer" usually pay twice.
Money accepted mid-case, and other unforced errors
A tenant offers a partial payment while the case is pending. You take it, because money is better than no money and you are trying to be reasonable. Depending on what you accepted, when, and what it was applied to, that payment can change the posture of a pending proceeding.
Do not improvise this. If a payment is offered mid-case, the decision belongs to your attorney, and whatever is agreed goes into writing before the money moves.
The second unforced error is the missing record. A ledger that was kept in your head. Communications spread across three text threads, a voicemail, and two conversations in a driveway. Notices with no proof of mailing. Bring one clean ledger and one organized communication file, or you are asking a court to take your memory over their paperwork.
Self-help is not a shortcut. It is a second case, against you.
Changing the locks. Shutting off the heat or the water. Removing belongings to the curb. Taking the door off. In New York, removing a tenant is done by an authorized enforcement officer after a court process, and never by you, no matter how obviously the tenant has stopped paying or how far past the lease term they are.
Owners who do this can convert a case they were winning into serious personal exposure.
The two weeks before you file
Reconcile the ledger to the penny. Pull every communication into one file in date order. Locate the signed lease, all riders, and every notice with proof of mailing. Then have a real conversation about outcomes, because a documented payment agreement or a negotiated move-out sometimes resolves the actual problem faster than a proceeding, and sometimes it does not. That call needs someone who has watched both play out.
Before you file anything, talk to an attorney about your specific facts, and talk to a property manager about your specific building. We are happy to be the second call.
This is general information, not legal advice. Landlord-tenant law changes, and the details matter — confirm anything specific with a qualified attorney.
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